take a really long time thinking of what to say, and you have the assurance of knowing that the people youre approaching are also single and open to meeting someoneafter all. Keep your message light and simple. Or Hows it going? Or you could just threaten to kidnap them. 09.19.2018 By Reuven Shechter Outrageous 0 comments. Generally, when people talk too much about themselves it reveals a real problem with listening, which is a turn off. With that being said, dont over think it! The intricate approach. Luckily, though, a recent study might have a few answers.
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Avoid TMI, tMI, or too much information, about yourself is a no-no on a first date, and its also a no-no with a first message too. Dont Over-Compliment, even if you think that your match deserves all of the compliments in the world, leave it to one short, positive remark. Have a nice day! M points out that a 2014 study from OKCupids co-founder Christian Rudder found that the best messages with the highest response rates were only 40-60 characters long, and took less than a minute to form. The best way to approach a first message is to keep it in friend territory. So, my online daters, happy swiping, and good luck on your next chat! Go splash some cold water on your face, look in the mirror, and ask yourself, What do I have to lose?